Okay, so I saw this thing called “How We See Each Other” template floating around online, and I thought, “Why not give it a shot?” It seemed like a fun little experiment to do with my best friend. We’ve known each other for ages, and I was really curious to see how our perspectives on each other had changed, or if they even had changed at all, you know?

So, I hit up my bestie, and suggested we try this out. She’s always up for trying new things, so she was in immediately. We decided to make a whole day of it. We grabbed some coffee, found a cozy spot at our favorite park, and started to search for this “How We See Each Other” template online. The term is hot, so we found lots of different templates. We picked one that looked simple enough – it had these sections for things like “First Impression,” “How I See You Now,” “What I Admire About You,” and a few others.
We decided to fill them out separately first, without peeking at each other’s answers. It was kind of nerve-wracking, honestly! I found myself really thinking hard about our friendship, how it’s evolved over the years, and all the little things that make it so special. I scribbled down my thoughts, trying to be as honest and open as possible.
After we were both done, we swapped our papers. This was the moment of truth! It was so interesting to read her answers about me. Some of them were exactly what I expected, but others were a total surprise. It was like seeing myself through her eyes, and it was a really cool feeling. We laughed, we got a little teary-eyed, and we talked for hours about our friendship.
Here are some highlights that we wrote:
- First Impression: I wrote that I thought she was super cool and confident. She wrote that she thought I was a little shy but really kind.
- How I See You Now: I wrote that she’s one of the most loyal and supportive people I know. She wrote that I’m way more confident now than I used to be, and that she’s proud of how much I’ve grown.
- What I Admire About You: I wrote that I admire her sense of humor and her ability to always see the good in people. She wrote that she admires my determination and my passion for the things I care about.
Honestly, this whole experience was way more meaningful than I expected. It wasn’t just about filling out a template, it was about taking the time to really appreciate our friendship and to see each other in a new light. We even decided to make this a yearly tradition, like a little check-in on our friendship. I highly recommend giving this a try with your best friend – you might be surprised at what you discover!